Standards
The Youth Department at Maranatha also has some specific
standards that must be observed in order for our ministry to run
smoothly.
As a general rule, we expect obedience and respect from each of our
teens. It is these two foundations that we can provide an atmosphere
in which teenagers can grow. This means that each of our teens is
expected to listen quietly when God’s Word is being preached. If a
teen continues to talk during Youth Group, they will be approached by
one of the Youth Staff. If the problem continues, you as the parent will
be notified. If repeated problems occur, your teen will be asked to
attend services with you until their behavior improves and they have
demonstrated a willingness to abide by this important guideline.
Behavior in the Services and Activities
Believe it or not, everyone has to draw the line somewhere. Almost
every school has instituted standards. Your work place probably has
instituted standards. As a youth department, we have also seen the
need to institute some standards. Our goal is first and foremost to
please the Lord when it comes to our dress. Our biblical principles for
pleasing the Lord in our dress is modesty, gender distinction,
appropriateness and distinction from the world. God expects each of
his children to dress in a way that honors Him and doesn’t cause
others to stumble. For this reason we have instituted the “loose”,
“long,” and “lots” standard. In reference to “loose”: We ask that our
girls and guys wear clothing that is not excessively tight. This often
draws unnecessary attention to areas that God doesn’t want to be
highlighted. In reference to “long”: We ask that when selecting
clothing for an activity the teen wear clothing that comes at least to
the knee. We have chosen this part of the body because it is a clear
standard. Finally, in reference to “lots”: We ask that teens wear
enough clothing to cover themselves in a modest way. These three
principles should guide the teens in their dress choices. One other
principle that should also be highlighted is the issue of
“Appropriateness”: Teens must learn what is and what is not
appropriate for certain events. As a general rule, the normal dress for
teens is dressy or business casual. On Sundays, we ask our teens to
look their very best. On Wednesday nights, due to the nature of many
of the games, the teens are encouraged to wear clothing for athletic
and recreational events. As a normal pattern, we will always strive to
communicate with our teens and parents about the appropriate dress
for certain activities.
If a teen is wearing something that doesn’t meet the youth ministry
standards, we will kindly inform them about it and ask them not to
wear that particular outfit to future events. If the problem continues,
the parents will be notified to help with the situation. We do believe
that this is a necessary policy and that these principles are clear and
very easy to follow.
Finally, if in doubt - ask! We will be happy to help.
Dress
...and be ready always to give an answer to every man that asketh you a
reason of the hope that is in you with meekness and fear. I Peter 3:15